I wrote a Facebook post earlier this week about how I've just employed two people to work with me in both of my businesses. And how by allowing myself to receive help and support has also allowed me to receive the gift of energy! Where on Monday, I felt completely energised, nourished and satisfied at the end of my working day due to receiving the amazing help and support from a lovely friend that I've just employed.
Whilst writing this Facebook post, the words naturally flowed toward to subject of receiving. And funnily enough, just before I wrote the post, I was on the phone to a dear friend where the conversation also naturally flowed toward the topic of receiving.
Up until recently, 'receiving' was something I always struggled with. This I feel, was due to not feeling WORTHY of receiving, which I believe is the case for many people, but especially for women.
From studying Sociology and Psychology, and working with numberous client over the years, I have come to see how dominant cultural and social forces such as the media contribute to why we, especially as women, feel UNWORTHY of receiving.
Here are some of those reasons:
1. We are constantly bombarded with messages that dictate to us, how we should act, how we should look, what we should have, where we should be, what we should do. The more we are exposed to such messages, the more it sinks into our energy field, and we start to BELIEVE that these messages are true! And then, if we step out of alignment with these dominant messages, we then start to believe that we are some kind of failure, not 'good enough' or WORTHY enough.
2. For women, the dominant message in our modern Western society, is that we need to have it all and do it all. HAVE the great job, the great house, the great car, the great clothes... and... BE a great wife, a great mother, a great friend, and a great house-keeper! Aaaah! How impossible are these expectations?! And when we don't meet it? Because we can't? YES! Unworthiness kicks in...
3. Being 'busy' is glorified in our society. The more busy you appear to be, the more important you and your life supposedly are! In buying into the 'busy' message, we end up filling our lives up, often with unnecessary and unhelpful things (eg. material objects, people or activities that don't serve our highest good). And then if we actually HAVE the time to relax, we feel guilty, unsettled and UNWORTHY because we 'supposedly' aren't 'doing' enough or 'being' enough. So much pressure!
Not only do all the above social pressures contribute to feelings of unworthiness, but they also result in the significant depletion of our energy reserves. Where we are so busy trying to live up to unrealistic ideals (and so often doing this alone!), that we run ourselves dry, where we have nothing left to give. And once we've hit this point, if any more demands are placed upon us, stress, frustration, resentment and anger (!) is likely to be the reaction and the outcome.
The culmination of the UNWORTHY belief system, as well as ENERGY DEPLETION is the perfect combination to stop us and ultimately block us from receiving things in life that we truly want, and what we, as human beings, truly deserve.
So know what?
I'm done with buying into the bullshit.
So so done with believing in those bullshitty, illusionary, untruthful social messages and pressures.
The days are over where I'm running, pushing, struggling, stressing, scrounging, scratching, crawling, sobbing...
All because of feeling that I HAVE to, and MUST, prove to myself and the world, that I can DO IT ALL, and ALL ON MY OWN. That this is somehow honourable. That this is what makes me, as a person, WORTHY.
It is now time to start living in the truth of what is real.
Simply by being human, we are worthy and deserving of receiving.
We do not have to prove our worth any longer.
It is time, now, to unblock ourselves and start receiving that which we truly want. That which is truly, and rightfully, ours for the taking...
Happiness. Love. Support. Energy. Abundance.
All of that good stuff.
As the amazing late author/speaker Dr. Wayne Dyer once said:
"We are children of the Creator. The children of Source. How can we not be deserving?"
In saying the above, if you feel you're ready, and it's time to engage in a major and deep clean up of your energy field, so that you are open to receive all that you are deserving of, in this life, I'm almost finished my training in the 'Auric Clearing' modality.
A modality that is the deepest, most comprehensive, most powerful healing techniques that I've ever come across (and believe me, I've done lots!)
It will give you a complete energetic clean out, a complete energetic re-set, so that you can start your journey out with a fresh and clean slate. A New Beginning.
I will write more about this technique in coming weeks, and how it is benefiting me and my life in unimaginable ways.
And the best thing is?
It only takes ONE session, it only takes 1.5hrs, it only costs $250, and it is done over the phone!
So you don't have to come back. It's quick. It's cost-effective (being a one off!) and you can be anywhere in the world and still 'receive' the incredible benefits of this technique!
Please get in touch here to book your free introductory phone call where I will offer a 15 minute run-down of this technique, and all it entails.
I so look forward to connecting, if this is what you are ready for, in this next step of your journey.
With much love,
Writer. Empowerment Mentor. Spiritual Guide for Sensitive Souls.
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